I fully hope and intend to bring back from Haiti a different perspective on life, and especially American life. From Haitians, and from reief workers.
I do not expect, nor do I want, to be the same person I am now, when I return, if I return safely.
The thought that keeps occurring to me is that, once I became capable of providing for myself, I have made a mistake in life providing help for individuals who are capable of fending for themselves. I think I have committed a disservice to them, and to myself.
I am not sure if I am right, it is simply the thought that keeps occurring to me.
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Jeff, I have always thought that your place would be THE PLACE to be if survival is were an issue. You are extremely capable of being self sufficient.
ReplyDeleteI think being an enabler is different than sharing responsibilities in terms of helping others who may be less able to fend for themselves. Share you abilities with others less informed and perhaps they will learn from you. In my opinion, it is only a disservice if you are a control freak and will not let the other person take charge of their life. Guidance is the key.
I trust that you will take care of yourself so that you can return home to those who love you and depend on your strenghts. G-dspeed, and G=d Bless you. Judy